May 10
Is Rotating Custody Really So Bad?
By Colette Lee Corcoran, M.Ed., LMHC, Esquire
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Colette Lee Corcoran, M.Ed., L.M.H.C., Esquire is a full time practicing attorney specializing in the area of family law, which includes divorce, prenuptial agreements, child custody, child support, and post judgment modifications. Colette is also a Florida Licensed Mental Health Counselor and is a member of the Adjunct Faculty at Florida Atlantic University's Counselor Education Department. Colette has a unique combination of a counseling psychology background and the legal expertise needed to resolve complex family law matters. She is committed to providing superior legal representation with integrity and professionalism, and she strives to develop relationships based on trust, honesty, and open communication.
The number of couples divorcing with minor children has increased at an incredible rate. The incidence of divorce in the United States rose continually for a century before finally slightly declining since 1981 from 5.3 to 4.3 divorces per 1,000 people in the year 2000. (Bureau of the Census, 2001). The rate of divorce in Florida remains at 5.3 divorces per 1,000 people and is historically higher than the national average. (Florida Office of Vital Statistics, 2000). When parents divorce, there is a necessary restructuring of the parental rights and responsibilities with regard to the children. Unfortunately, many divorces involve a custody dispute.
What is the Impact of Divorce on Children?
Divorcing persons and their children proceed through stages of grief similar to that which one would experience as a result of the death of a loved one, with a range of emotions from hurt, anger, grief, denial, bargaining, depression, and acceptance (Hozman & Froiland, 1976). Amato and Keith (1991b) examined ninety-two (92) studies involving over 13,000 children and compared children of divorced single-parent families with children of continuously intact families on eight (8) measures of well-being:
(a) academic achievement
(b) conduct
(c) psychological adjustment
(d) self-concept
(e) social adjustment
(f) mother-child relations
(g) father-child relations
(h) other.
Amato and Keith (1991b) concluded that parental divorce and the factors associated with it, parental conflict, economic disadvantage, or parental absence, lower the well-being of children on all eight (8) measures of well being examined. The authors also note that their research suggests that parental conflict seems to have the most overreaching negative effect on children.
The same researchers, Amato and Keith (1991a) also reviewed the literature on adult children of divorce and in their meta-analysis involving 81,000 people in twenty-seven (27) studies and concluded that parental divorce has lasting negative implications for adult attainment and quality of life. Amato and Keith (1991a) speculate that divorce and it's consequences, mainly parental absence, economic hardship, and conflict exposure, increase the risk of problems primarily in late adolescence and early adulthood. When comparing adult children of divorced parents with adult children of intact marriages, adult children of divorced parents have less educational attainment (McLanahan, 1985), are more likely to have a child while unmarried (McLanahan & Bumpass, 1988), and are more likely to get divorced (Glenn & Kramer, 1987).
Research suggests that the well being of children whose parents were still together compared to children whose parents had divorced was significantly lower for those children whose parents were divorced. Amato and Keith (1991a) performed a meta-analysis of ninety-two (92) studies regarding same and concluded that children of divorced parents scored significantly lower than those children of parents who remained together on academic achievement, conduct, psychological adjustment, self-concept, and social competence.
The most recent research trend seems to reflect that it was not the actual divorce which negatively impacted the children but rather it was the parental conflict which negatively impacted the children. There is a strong sentiment in the literature that the more serious harm to children comes not from the actual event of divorce but from the chronic conflict surrounding the divorce which traps "children in a maelstrom of experiences and emotions that can erode the child's relationship with one or both parents." (Elrod, 2001). In the past five (5) years, the recognition of the conflict surrounding divorcing families has become more widespread (Elrod, 2001). The 2000 Wingspread Conference advocated for the interdisciplinary collaboration among mental health professionals, lawyers, and judges in making the systemic changes necessary to assist family members involved in high conflict divorce litigation (Wingspread Conferees, 2001). The report generated at the Wingspread Conference describes an action plan for each profession to protect and restore healthy family interactions during conflict (Wingspread Conferees, 2001).
What is the Story with Custody?
Custody generally refers to the rights and responsibilities of parents with regard to their children. Legal custody involves the right and responsibility of the parent to make health and welfare decisions, while physical or residential custody is the right and responsibility of the parent to reside with the child. The custodial parent is usually the divorced parent with whom the children live a majority of the time and who is typically the recipient of child support.
In the early 19th century, children were considered property and as such, the father owned all of the property so that in the case of a divorce, the father was arbitrarily reward custody of the children (Gardner, 1986). Thereafter, for several decades the pendulum swung in the other direction and the courts viewed the mother as the primary caretaker of the children and consequently awarded custody to the mother under the "tender years doctrine" (Gardner, 1986). In the 1970s, there was a trend in the United States toward gender neutralization of the child custody statutes, which essentially removed the preference for the mother to be appointed physical custody of minor children in divorce litigation (Bahr, Howe, Morill-Mann & Bahr, 1994; Gardner, 1986; Laing-Klaff, 1982 ). Additionally, notwithstanding which parent was awarded custody, the revised laws reflected that the non-custodial parents shall be given liberal access to the children (Gardner, 1986).
Gardner (1986) notes that in the late 1970s and early 1980s, the concept of "joint custody" gained in popularity and the idea that one parent should have custody and the other be the "visitor" was viewed as inegalitarian, putting the "visiting parent" in an inferior position. Gardner (1986) explains that the basic theory behind joint custody is that every attempt to approximate the kind of situation that prevailed in the marital home prior to the dissolution, in which both parents contributed to the child's upbringing should be made. Joint custody has been defined in various ways and has also been called rotating custody, alternating physical custody, split custody, and shared custody. Generally, joint custody is defined as shared parental responsibility with the parents sharing physical custody of the minor children (Perrow, 2003). Some jurisdictions strictly define rotating custody to include only those arrangements wherein the parents each have fifty-percent (50%) of the overnights with the minor children (McNeely, 1998) and other jurisdictions define rotating custody as any arrangement wherein the children spend thirty to fifty percent (30%-50%) of the overnights with one parent and the remaining time with the other parent (Perrow, 2003). Some states allow for a reduction in child support to be paid where the parent to pay child support spends forty-percent (40%) or more of the overnights with the minor children (e.g., Florida) (Fla. Stat. s. 61.13 (2005)).
As a consequence thereof, fathers now had a legal right to argue for joint custody of the minor children in a divorce proceeding. With this new legal trend came increased conflict and litigation between parents (Gardner, 1986) and the possibility that the father can be awarded custody of the children or that parents might in fact share the children in a joint custody arrangement. Gardner (1986) even goes so far as to assert that at no point in Western civilization has there been more litigation over custody.
What Does the Scientific Literature Say?
In a study with a national probability sample of 13,017 individuals age 19 and over, representing 9,643 American families and households, Kelly, Redenbach, & Rinaman (2005) found that in 80% of the cases, the mother received sole physical custody of the minor child or children. The remaining 20% of the cases were evenly divided between the father having sole physical custody and joint custody. Of those cases designated as joint custody cases, about half of the cases involved situations where the children were spending approximately 50% of the time with each parent and the remaining were sharing physical custody but to a lesser degree (e.g., school year with the mother and summer with the father). Kelly, Redenbach, & Rinaman (2005), citing Fox & Kelly (1995), Melli et al (1997), Seltzer (1990) and Teachman & Polonko (1990), note that the distribution found in their sample was similar to that found with other divorce samples. The authors also concluded from their research that three selection effects in the determination of joint physical custody outcomes were evident: the measures of pre-separation conflict and post-separation conflict were negatively related to the odds of a joint custody arrangement as compared to maternal custody (Kelly, Redenbach, & Rinaman, 2005). Kelly, Redenbach, & Rinaman (2005) suggest, based on their research that parents with low-conflict marriages and divorce-negotiation processes are the parents who tend to select joint custody. The authors also not that total parental income was also positively correlated with joint custody outcome (Kelly, Redenbach, & Rinaman, 2005).
Previous studies have yielded inconsistent results about the implications of contact with nonresidential parents for children in single-parent households (Amato, 1994). Amato (1994) tested the hypothesis that children's contact with nonresident parents decreases children's behavior problems when inter-parental conflict is low but increases children's behavior problems when inter-parental conflict is high. Amato (1994b) analyzed from 1,285 children in single-parent families from the National Survey of Families and Households and found that the hypothesis was supported among boys from divorced families but found no support for the hypothesis among girls, regardless of family background.
The Maccoby et al. (1990) research indicated that parents who engage in a joint physical custody arrangement were not more likely to engage in antagonistic coparenting and were more likely to have supportive communication as compared to the traditional single custodial family parents. Maccoby et al. (1990) also reported based on their study, where one parent had physical custody, there was higher levels of coparenting conflict, which is attributed to the arrangement not being the preference of the non-custodial parent. In conflict with the Maccoby et al, (1990) study, Arditti and Bickey (1996) report based on their research that parents with joint physical custody arrangements had higher levels of coparenting conflict and antagonism. Arditti and Bickey (1996) attribute the higher levels of coparenting conflict and antagonism on to the increased amount of contact required between the parents facilitating a joint custody arrangement.
Hendrickson (1991) examined children's psychological adjustment, parental support, parental conflict and child custody arrangements of families whose marriages had terminated and found that children in shared custody arrangements were better psychologically adjusted that those in sole custody arrangements. When controlling for gender in his sample, Hendrickson (1991) found that girls showed better development in shared than sole custody arrangements with the boys did better in sole custody placement.
In some cases, where the court is in a position to have to determine whether rotating custody is appropriate, the court appoints a mental health professional to perform a Custody Evaluation. Generally, a custody evaluation is an examination of children's home environment and their relationships with their parents used by the court in making a determination regarding custody. Custody evaluators working with children of divorcing parents have been offered minimal, if any, professional training on the issues involved in working with children of divorcing parents and the interventions. Stern, Simpson, Gage, and Worley (2000) examined professionals who have frequent interaction with children and parents who divorce and found that only fifty percent (50%) had never received any specific training working with divorce. Of those professionals who did receive divorce training, fifty percent (50%) received divorce training in a workshop, forty-five percent (45%) had conducted self-study, and seventeen percent (17%) received training in graduate school. The professionals surveyed overwhelmingly recommended that professionals working with these children should be trained in the specialty area, however, to date there are no universal requirements for counselors who work with children of divorcing parents.
What Does it all Mean for a Specific Case?
There is certainly a deficit of research examining the full extent and nature of the psychological impact of rotating custody on children of divorce. Based on the available scientific literature regarding rotating custody, it is difficult for courts to uniformly rule which custody arrangement which most appropriately suits the best interest of the children. Consequently, where rotating custody is an issue, there must a close analysis of the specific facts of each case to make the determination.
What are the Recommended Areas for Future Research?
It is clear that future research needs to be done to gain insight into the characteristics incident to rotating custody arrangements following divorce. Additionally, researchers need to compare the short term psychological effects of rotating custody on minor children post divorce to the short term psychological effects on minor children post divorce who are awarded to one parent or the other parent when controlling for conflict.
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